Tempting Fate (a.k.a. Them’s the Breaks)
If you engage in an activity where you might orgasm, and you do so without permission from that activity, you ALWAYS earn a black ring. Simple.
Even if you tried to stop, or it was an accident or the Keeper used a stimulation that you couldn’t stop in time.
Whether you MEANT to orgasm, or even if the Keeper didn’t give you a choice and kept stimulation despite your warnings…you decided to enter into the activity with the potential of orgasm, and therefore knew the risk that IF you orgasm without permission, a black ring is automatic.
For example, let’s say the Keeper requires you to edge for 1 minute AND not to cum. It is common for Keepers to require a warning from the Seeker if they are close. However unless the Keeper gives you the OPTION to stop before 1 minute, you must warn AND proceed AND must not cum. If you cum, either because you couldn’t hold back or misjudged and didn’t stop in time, you get a black ring.
Prostate Health Clause
When orgasm is denied for extended periods, especially with frequent arousal and stimulation, the Seeker must maintain prostate health through regular massage or drainage.
- Purpose: Prevent buildup, congestion, or discomfort that can arise from prolonged denial.
- Frequency: At Keeper’s discretion, but generally weekly or biweekly if orgasms are withheld for more than 10–14 days.
- Forms:
- Internal prostate massage (manual or toy-assisted)
- External perineal massage
- etc
Notes:
- This is a health clause, not indulgence.
